How Dental Fear Led to My Spiritual Awakening with Devoted Energy Coaching
Monthly Review for February 2024
There is so much I do not know in this world. So much that I have not been taught yet the shame of not knowing, even if pained by ancestral wounds, causes me to clamp tightly. It is as if my jaw is wired shut - be quiet, don’t ask, pretend to know, save face, don’t be a problem, hide from the problem.
Yet how can the energy of curiosity help me to breathe again? The type of breath that happens when you eat peppermint and the coolness expands your insides and you feel the tingles of refreshing liveliness that makes you feel awake and alive.
This month, I had a profound healing moment at the dentist. For so long, going to any healthcare provider was scary as shit. I’d forget that I had power to ask questions, to advocate for what I need. How do you even do that when it has never been modeled before? How do you know you can go to the dentist and ask for medicine that will ease your nervous system when you have such fear that it cripples you into a bucket of sobbing tears as you gasp for air because you are crying so hard.
Learning what I don’t know by admitting I need help, sharing vulnerability, how I am feeling and the fears that reside within me, and asking for support paved the way to being able to have a root canal with peace.
My dentist played a pivotal role in reshaping my perception of dental visits. He illuminated each step of the process, ensuring I was never left in the dark about what to expect next, the potential sensations, or the duration of each part of the procedure. This transparency restored my sense of control. Of course, having never undergone the procedure before meant I had to place my trust in him, my guide, without demanding a detailed roadmap. This, in itself, presented a profound spiritual lesson.
This two-hour dental visit not only transformed my relationship with dentistry but also led me to a deeper understanding of my fears. The intense, visceral fear of powerlessness isn't just my own—it's a legacy of fear that traces back through generations, from the experiences in my mother's womb to those of my grandmothers and grandfathers.
What is the point of my story?
There is a transformative power when we confront and navigate through the thing that causes us pain and fear but only when we are ready, able, willing, and resourced enough to take a look at it.
The journey involves self-awareness, articulating our fears, and embracing the lessons they teach us as avenues for growth and healing. This month, for me, it was about overcoming a longstanding fear of the dentist. For the members of Devoted Way, it ranged across various experiences.
For instance:
In the Devoted Energy Coaching School, students overcame fears of being "unprepared" and "making a mistake" during their first practicum.
Dehryl, from the Leading Luminous Circle + Retreat, discovered the value in embracing discomfort and the unknown, learning that the need for control and definite outcomes isn't always necessary.
Angie of Cosmically Blissful is redefining her life beyond her roles, challenging traditional notions of "retirement" to embody the role of a wise teacher.
Kassy, a DECS GEM, finds joy in being stretched and challenged, excited by the growth and the blend of excitement and hesitation this new level of uncertainty brings within the Devoted Energy Coaching School.
Raquel, engaged in Creating Your Magical Quiz, refined her quiz under my business coaching to enhance clarity for her audience, learning the importance of not just content but its placement.
Lisa and Trina, also DECS GEMS, have energetically understood and embodied the shift from being rescuers to taking radical responsibility for their energy, enhancing their capacity as coaches.
Susan, part of Cosmically Blissful, is navigating the early stages of her business with support, learning to move forward step by step with encouragement from the Cosmically Blissful DeLights community.
Megan Seamans, a graduate of the Devoted Energy Coaching School, invited me to her new podcast to delve into magic and energy, showcasing her ongoing curiosity about the energetic realm. Stay tuned for its release.
Celine, a Luminary from Leading Luminous Circles + Retreats, manifested a home by embracing deep energy work and moving past hesitations and doubts. She is waiting for contract approval and we are sending her well wishes.
Sarah, a DECS GEM, celebrated her birthday with us during a student Q&A session by engaging with a thoughtful question and giving us the opportunity to love her. Blessings to another year around the sun!
These examples highlight just a fraction of the shifts we've experienced. Our month has been rich with events designed to support you spiritually, in business, and energetically.
If you're seeking this level of support, I recommend starting with Cosmically Blissful for group coaching. Here, you'll receive both business and energy coaching tailored to align with your soul's rhythm.
Additionally, there are a few spots remaining for beta-testing a new offering focused on holding circles or integrating healing sharing circles into your services, aimed at those looking for a more graceful approach.
WAIT! Exciting News
Before diving into this month's events at Devoted Day, here's an exciting opportunity: join a Devoted Energy Coaching School Class as a GEM for a day in March. Experience Class 4 with us for an epically fun time. If you're already a member of our free Devoted Collective group, click here to RSVP and receive the event details + Zoom link.
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Upcoming Gatherings inside of Cosmically Blissful:
Tues, Mar 5: Sacred Space Holding Workshops
Concept: Inviting Others into Your Magical Realm: Expressing Your Unique Medicine and Superpower
Who can attend: Cosmically Blissful Members, Non-Members Drop-In Rate of $20 register here
In these hour-long monthly workshops, you'll gain invaluable insights and practical tools to enhance your space holding abilities. Whether you're a coach, healer, lightworker, practitioner, or sacred leader, these sessions are designed to empower your journey in creating transformative experiences for others.
Each month, we delve into a new aspect of holding ceremonial space, offering you rich, diverse training that's essential for both online and in-person settings. From the nuances of crafting sacred rituals to the dynamics of leading with intention and empathy, every session is a step forward in mastering this profound art.
March 2024 Question: In expressing the unique medicine and superpower within you, how can you invite others into your magical realm in a way that they remember and cherish their experience with you?
In our dynamic Space Holding Workshop, Inviting Others into Your Magical Realm: Expressing Your Unique Medicine and Superpower, we will embark on a journey to explore the depths of our individual gifts. This workshop is crafted for those who seek to not only understand and harness their innate powers but also to extend an invitation to others that leaves a lasting impact. Through interactive exercises, reflective prompts, and practical strategies, participants will delve into the art of expressing their unique essence in a way that captivates and nurtures. By the end of this session, you will be equipped with the tools and insights needed to create spaces that are not just remembered but deeply cherished by those you touch.
Event details inside of our free Devoted Collective Group
Wed, Mar 6: March 2024: Cosmically Blissful Ceremony
Concept: DEEP Ceremony Session
Who can attend: Cosmically Blissful Members
Each month, Sora will host a 60-minute DEEP Ceremonial Session as part of your Cosmically Blissful member. This will be an intuitively led guided DEEP session to support you on your personal devoted journey. The intention of this space is for you to lean into the pause, the breath, and trust the synchronicity of what rises to the surface through this spiritual practice.
Event details for those who are in Cosmically Blissful
Mon, Mar 11: GEM Grad Sacred Circle
Concept: Sacred Circle
Who can attend: Devoted Energy Coaching School Grads
This is a monthly gathering where we as GEM grads connect, share, and grow. This is a special space for celebrating our growth, sharing life's journeys, and embracing our vulnerabilities together.
In our circle, every story is valued, every emotion acknowledged. It’s a chance to be witnessed in your authenticity, to reconnect with fellow graduates, and to strengthen the bonds that tie us together. Whether you’re coming with stories to tell or just to bask in the warmth of our community, your presence will enrich our collective experience.
Let's uplift each other, share laughter, wisdom, and maybe a tear or two, as we continue on this beautiful journey of growth and connection.
I look forward to being in circle with you. I do hope you'll make it.
Event details for GEM Grads
Wed, Mar 13: Cosmically Blissful Get Coached Session
Concept: Laser Energy Coaching
Who can attend: Cosmically Blissful Members
Get Coached! I invite you to step into a realm of transformation and discovery. This isn't just any coaching session; it's a journey led by a seasoned navigator of the cosmic soul realms – me! I hope this opportunity that I am extending to you, the heart and soul of the Cosmically Blissful community, is one that you will say YES to.
What Can You Expect at Get Coached?
Personalized Laser Energy Coaching: For those who RSVP and express their desire in the comments, prepare to be the focus of a unique, one-on-one coaching session. Your energy, your challenges, your breakthroughs – it's all about you.
Witness and Transform: Not ready for the spotlight? No problem. Join us as a space holder and experience the collective energy. You'll be surprised at how the transformations of others can ripple into your own life.
Demystify Energy Coaching: Ever wondered what energy coaching really is? This is your chance to satiate that curiosity. Discover the tools, techniques, and triumphant tales of those who've walked this path before.
Community and Connection: The Devoted Collective is more than a group; it's a family. Share, learn, and grow with individuals who are on the same journey as you.
Event details for Cosmically Blissful Members
Mon, Mar 18: Devoted Students Q&A
Concept: Q&A - Ask Sora Anything
Who can attend: Students who are enrolled in CYMQ, LLCR, DECS, AHMCO, Ritual Kit, MOC
*Even if you are not enrolled in a course, you are invited to attend. Starting next month, this will be a closed offering.
Receive real-time feedback, and connect with others on the same journey. Whether you're encountering a specific obstacle, seeking advice on how to enhance your circles/business/etc, or simply wanting to share a breakthrough, these calls are designed to provide you with the insights and encouragement you need. It's more than just me dryly answer one q after another; it's an interactive experience that grows and evolves with you, ensuring that every month brings you closer to enhancing your medicine and work. Join us, and let's co-create an environment where your passion for transformative spaces flourishes.
Event details for students who are enrolled in a Devoted Way Course
Mon, Mar 18: Certified Devoted Energy Coaches CPP
Concept: Practice Your Energy Coaching
Who can attend: Certified Devoted Energy Coaches
Event details for Certified GEMS
Thurs, Mar 21: Cosmically Blissful Business Support + CoWorking
Concept: Business Support and CoWorking
Who can attend: Cosmically Blissful members
Sora and Team Devoted will host a monthly live 75-90-minute group business coaching and coworking session. The intention of having these monthly Biz Coaching + CoWorking is so that you continue to be soulfully aligned with your spiritual life and sacred business - having a greater capacity to serve your clients with precision, energy, and clarity.
Event details for Cosmically Blissful Members
Mon, Mar 25: OPEN HOUSE! Join us inside of a Devoted Energy Coaching School Class
Concept: Get a sneak peek into DECS
Who can attend: EVERYONE!!!
Discover the Magic Within Being a Devoted Energy Coach: DECS Open House Experience
Join us for an exclusive peek into the Devoted Energy Coaching School (DECS), where you'll step into the shoes of a student for a special segment of Class 4. This unique open house event invites you to explore the fascinating world of energy systems through the lens of pop culture. Dive into discussions on movies and books to uncover mystical insights and learn how these systems can enhance your coaching skills. Don't miss this chance to explore, learn, and connect with our vibrant community of GEMS.
Get your popcorn ready because we will be watching snippets of movies during our time together!
Date: Monday, March 25th
Time: 4pm et (NY time)
Unlock your mystical senses with us and see how pop culture can illuminate the path to understanding energy coaching tools.
**Please RSVP and join us if you can truly make it. To maintain the class's sacredness and honor the commitment of our GEMS students, we won't be providing a recording for later review.
Event details for Everyone
Tues, Mar 26: Reading + CoWorking
Concept: Get Your Stuff Done
Who can attend: EVERYONE!!!
As life coaches and healers, we often find ourselves deeply immersed in our work, which is incredibly rewarding but can sometimes leave little room for personal growth and relaxation. It also means that often, we feel alone and overwhelmed by our to-do list. That's why I'm thrilled to introduce our Monthly Devoted Reading & Coworking Circle!
This gathering is a haven for those who wish to rekindle their love for reading, explore new literary worlds, get work done while in a state of flow, or take a break to connect with a supportive community.
Honestly, reading can be a divine portal for new inspiration or thought-provoking inquiry. Whether fiction or nonfiction, immersing yourself in a good book helps us unwind - unfurl the tight grip that logic and linear ways of being have on us. Relaxing our system creates space for ideas and wisdom, and I am all for that. In addition, I love hearing folks read their favorite passage or share insights and emotions that rose to the surface from whatever they read - even if it was just a chapter or a couple of pages.
This is the beauty of reading together.
At the same time, if coworking is your thing this month, gosh, I don't know a better way to get into that flow state everyone desires to be in All.The.Time. Since we, as a collective, tap into the universal field, it boosts our magical ability to expand time and you get so much done. Coworking is also a wonderful space to get to know each other's work and foster connection and possibly collaborations.
Event details for everyone.
I’d love to hear from you. Would you leave me a comment and share your feels around today’s post?